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Lorraine Evanoff's avatar

This is something I explore in my novels, Manuel. Many dark nightmares forced me to find a way to cope with unconscious fear and deep anxiety. Eventually I learned to "embrace" the evil that was assaulting me in the recurring dreams, which empowered me. It's always hard to explain such subjective things. You and the quote you shared do it much better than I can.

Manuel A Garcia's avatar

Thank you for commenting, Lorraine. It is difficult to articulate the subjective. In a previous version of the post I also used "embrace" to describe facing the inner threat without attempting to block it. What "gift" does the experience bring that I should consider? I don't want to succumb to hate. I am not a psychologist— just trying to work my way through the challenges. Thank you so much for sharing.

W. Scott Cameron's avatar

Well stated

Graciewilde's avatar

It often seems that I linger in that dark place whether I want to or not but more often these days I am learning to do that deep breathing in and out. I am trying to just trust that good will win out. Some days that's easier than other days.

Manuel A Garcia's avatar

Thank you, Gracie. I find it reassuring to hear from others that share this boat.

Karen S. Bonnell's avatar

Love Joan's work. And appreciate your consistent writing ... persistent, insistent, commitment to finding our footing in the face of this dark time!!

Manuel A Garcia's avatar

Thank you, Karen. We need to help each other trek through this swamp!

Frederick Fullerton's avatar

Joyfully resilient is a good start.

Manuel A Garcia's avatar

A good plan, Frederick. Thanks for commenting.

B Stings's avatar

I like Joan Chittister's definition of growth. Hadn't heard of her before you brought her to my attention. Quite a prolific writer

Manuel A Garcia's avatar

She is more mature and eloquent than I will ever be. Thanks for your comment, B.